My sincerest sympathies got out to Jade Goody and her family and friends and of course
to her new husband and her children in what is a very difficult challenge
for them all. I think she is having a large impact on the highlighting of the
cancer especially that of cervical cancer in young women. In bringing to the fore the idea of death or as I prefer to call it, the change, it does really focus the mind for many people and with this in mind I refer to an earlier posting, afraid of dying, please click on the Blog link. Jade is no doubt having better or worse days with this but in public is showing a very brave face and one that really should be applauded. She is showing the world that you can, even in this media frenzy, be dignified and that you can face the change with a calmness that everyone should be able to. If I could speak to her I would tell her that the final moments are not painful, that she will not only be free but in a very joyous state and taken home to where we all ultimately belong. She as such, will not be parted from her children, she can visit her friends, loved ones and family whenever she wants. Yes it is true that most will not sense her there and so for those who do not understand there will be that loss, but for Jade a whole experience is there to be had and though we are here for "our allotted time" it is when you think of it, in terms of eternity, not even a millisecond in that time frame, when they shall be together again. The very thing that Jade is showing to the world is acceptance of the change and that she is being so very brave about it. For those that do not believe or understand, it is the supposed finality of it that frightens people. If all could understand as we do it is in very many terms a real beginning then it is something that should not be feared. Like I said in the other post, you were not afraid of being born, were you? Of course not and you very simply entered by a door through which you are now passing through again. In Spirit, they mourn the birth as we do a passing although they know it is for your own good and rejoice that you have come home, while we morn generally, a passing. It is strange to think that we spend in essence so little time here yet we choose to be afraid of going home because of dogma and creed and the misinformation that surrounds this subject for many people. Yet just scrape the surface and real information is there, you just need to look in the right places. I have recommended a few sites and you should look for them. you will find more sites there to inspire you. For myself, I look forward to the day of homecoming, not that I wish to leave those behind whom I love because those who do not understand will miss me but because I can take a forward step, begin my real work and wait till we all are reunited once more in such a beautiful place filled with ecstasy that we can all share for eternity. Bless you Jade and your family, I pray for you to find your peace. |